I kind of think it would be hot to watch porn with my bf, but then again... LIST OF ANXIETIES! GO:
- having just come out this year, it's also something that I kept such an intensely guarded secret, I think it would make me anxious having someone else looking at my collection.
- I also wonder if my porn collection reveals any subconscious biases... For example I don't have a lot of Asian representation, but part of that is kind of that there's not a lot of Asians in porn to begin with.
- I would also worry that he would infer things about my preferences based on the movies and the guys in them. I think the worst thing would be if he felt like I was more turned on by the guys in the porn than him.
- The truth is, I haven't been watching that much porn since I came out really; I haven't really needed it like I used to... but I still download some of the vids from my old favorite sites, almost like keeping up with and old friend, lol. I'd also hate for my bf to think that I've needed them to jerk off with these past 3 months, cause I've probably only jerked off like... twice in the past 3 months. (On a digression, I have no guilt about jerking off in a relationship or anything lol, I just haven't really needed it or felt like it). Augh TMI again?
At some level I think it would be funny/hot, but like everything... I freak out thinking about this kind of stuff. And I can't pass up the opportunity to make another list.
LOL. I dont have any Asian porn. Nor black, nor tranny, nor bears.
ReplyDeleteI like twinks. Blond and smooth chests, hairy pits and manscaped pubes, and uncut.
I'll share my likes, but not my porn.
I don't think you can say your are biased because you like a certain type of porn.
So you said you didnt have a lot of Asians, what was your preferred genre?
Definitely do not share your porn with you bf. That would be a mistake! I don't even share porn with my best friend. Some things should just remain personal. And good for you for not feeling guilt in jerking off even though you are in a relationship.
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i think it depends on your comfort level and the type of relationship you have with your bf. im more of a private person to begin with.
ReplyDeleteI trend toward the Sean Cody/Corbin Fisher stuff. Something about the non-professional looking videos appeals to me. I don't think I can get off with the thumpy soundtracks and cheesy dialogues :/
ReplyDeleteI burn porn CDs as Christmas gifts.
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